What’s the difference between world class athletes and the rest of us?
Inherent skill? Luck? DNA? Maybe.
But I guarantee the greatest athletes in the world didn’t just show up to the court one day and dominate. Most of the time the guys and gals that are the greatest are the folks who practice the most.
Sure, if you’ve got some basic coordination skills, decent size and speed, you’d do better than most at most sports.
But only a little bit. Maybe enough to be a starter on a high school team. Not nearly enough to be a world class athlete.
In order to be a world class athlete, you need to make a decision that’s the most important thing in your life.
But what does that mean, exactly? (It sounds kind of like some goofy law of attraction statement)
What it means is that you practice. A lot.
Tiger Woods became a world class golfer not from inherent skill or luck or having a hardass father.
Sure, they helped. But the ONE THING that was crucial to his success was practice.
Daily, consistent, mind numbingly boring, practice.
You want to be a world class golfer? You gotta hit thousands of balls on the driving range.
Every. Single. Day.
You want to be a world class boxer? You gotta spend hours in the gym, working on technique and endurance until you can barely stand.
Same goes for pretty much any skill.
The bottom line is that if you want to get good at something, you’ve got to put in lots of practice.
The more you practice, the better you’ll get.
Seduction is no different.
There’s no shortcuts, and not magic words that can let you cut to the head of the line.
Sadly, many gurus are selling VERY expensive products that claim otherwise. Like you can sit in seminar for three days and suddenly become a lady killer.
That would be like going to a weekend basketball camp and thinking you can play for the NBA.
Ain’t gonna happen.
If you want to become a world class seducer, or even just “good enough” to walk into your local watering hole or coffee shop and feel confident enough to create attraction in any girl in the place, you’re gonna need to practice.
Now, here’s a question for you.
What if, from now on, you looked at EVERY SINGLE INTERACTION with women as ONLY practice?
Like Tiger hitting thousands of balls a day on the driving range?
You’d never worry about rejection, since it’s only practice. You’d be able to say stuff you don’t normally say, since it’s only practice. You’d be able to “try on” different personalities, since it’s only practice.
And guess what? The more you practice, the more you “let go” any concern for any specific outcome, the more you just see it as a “game” rather than any kind of life or death, once in a lifetime opportunity to meet your soul mate, the more attractive you’ll be.
And then girls will start chasing you.
One FANTASTIC way to “play around” is to push all of her buttons, and just step back and see what happens.